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Rather than fix the wrongs that Calvary Church and it's staff has done, the Pastor and "elder" board has used the pulpit, with its Sunday Morning broadcast on WDAC to put their "spin" on the crisis that has caused dozens of people to leave the church as the people start asking questions.










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Calvary Church Drugs Healthy Child to Help in Custody Dispute
Unrepentant Leadership Tries to Cover-up!

December 10, 2005

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Just how far would a church go to help a church member in a custody dispute? For Calvary church, on Landis Valley Road, it means drugging an otherwise healthy child, violating court orders and helping to criminally frame the unwitting father! While 5thEstate.com has detailed how Judge Wayne Hummer has been the chief enabler of Wendy Flanders, the 2,500 member, mega-independent-church has used its connections and influence to fight and put down this father - whose only desire is to be involved with his child's life.

Ben Vonderheide, the father involved, has most recently faced 8 years in jail over false charges brought against him by his ex-paramour and now a single-mother-darling of Calvary Church, Wendy Flanders. The church, rather than encourage matrimony for this serial fornicator, has under-written Flanders' acrimony with a monthly stipend from their "benevolence fund". Calvary Church But has Flanders merely duped the church and taken advantaged of their generosity? 5thEstate.com's extensive investigation has revealed that leadership at Calvary Church has not only "purged" itself of dissenting board members but has engaged in a public relations campaign designed to malign anyone that stands up to the injustices perpetrated on Vonderheide.

Rather than fix the wrongs that Calvary Church and it's staff have done, the Pastor and "elder" board has used the pulpit, with its Sunday Morning broadcast on WDAC to put their "spin" on the crisis that has caused dozens of people to leave the church as the people start asking questions.

The propaganda spin began full fledge when Vonderheide, after exhausting months of behind-the-scenes attempts to resolve the issue, filed a lawsuit and then sent a postcard to many of the members and attendees of the church. The church bulletin on July 24, 2005 talked about how Christians should respond to "enemies" and then says this about the lawsuit:

Calvary Church "The Elders have examined allegations in a legal matter related to a child custody dispute brought by someone who does not attend the church. It also names particular leaders, staff and members. Having found no evidence of illegality or sin, the Elders believe that we will be upheld. For anyone unjustly hurt by false allegations, may God give grace and strength to endure."

Details of Vonderheide's lawsuit can be found at CalvaryChurch.biz

NO evidence of illegality or sin? Oh really? 5thEstate.com editor Ron Harper, Jr. made repeated attempts to various leaders at Calvary for them to look at the evidence presented in this story and was rebuffed a dozen times or more. They absolutely asserted their unwillingness to even reconsider their position.

On August 21, 2005, Senior Pastor Johnny Miller used his Sunday Morning, WDAC broadcast to talk about how the church is suffering "persecution" for "righteousness"! The pastor spiritualizes the leadership ignoring, what should be declared as sin, by declaring that he has, "…committed to fast three times a week until God releases us from whatever foothold Satan may have in our congregation and I would pray that God would just send and outpouring of His holy spirit and blessing."

(click here to listen to entire comments - WARNING 1/2 Meg. file)

Calvary Church Flanders's chief confidant at Calvary Church was and is Kathy Yoder, an unlicensed Calvary Church staffer in the counseling department. Yoder's role in the drugging of this healthy child is undeniable and her role in coordinating Flanders' attacks on Vonderheide are easily documented. Yoder stopped working for Calvary Church earlier in the year. While this change might be a direct result of the rancor and discord that she has sown in this situation, the church has done nothing to mitigate her influence publicly and has in fact, defended her and her actions to fellow church members.

In August of 2004, Kathy's boss at Calvary, the head of the counseling department, George May, held a meeting with number of interested parties to try and get Kathy and her estranged parents to reconcile. For a number of years, Kathy will not speak to nor allow her 10 year old daughter to speak to her Calvary-church-member-parents. Witnesses at the meeting said that Kathy said that she has no interest in patching things up with her parents! May, who was leading the meeting did nothing and allowed Kathy to continue her role in helping Flanders in her custody fight with Vonerheide.

Yoder's husband Ted, is often seen sitting close to Flanders in the courtroom, seemingly protecting her from anything that might happen. (During a recent hearing in the back of the courtroom, Ted made a bizarre face at 5thEstate.com's smiling editor, Ron Harper, Jr. and whispered "Pathetic!")

Custody Fight Begins
On February 6, 2003 Ben and Wendy were given joint custody of their son in terms of "...decisions affecting the child, including but not limited to, medical, religious, and educational decisions and each parent shall have access to medical, dental and school records, the residence of the child [sic] and of the other parent."

After fighting two Protections From Abuse (PFA) charges, four Indirect Criminal Complaints (ICC), two Criminal Harassment charges and many other abuses of the system, Vonerheide filed a "Petition for modification of a partial custody order." on August 6, 2004 to ask the court to give his son to him full-time and Flanders part-time.

Vonderheide, pointed out that Flanders had ignored the provisions of the custody order in that:

1) She refuses to use the child's name - Vonderheide - in order to cut off connection to his father.

2) She has filed various bogus criminal charges. On one occasion, the District Attorney's office had "nolle prosed" (basically erased them) because they were so bogus! May, while working as the head of Calvary church counseling department, had assisted in these bogus charges by transcribing dozens of phone messages in attempt to malign Vonderheide

3) Over a ten month period, Flanders had allowed Vonderheide to talk with his son only 5 times on the phone!

4) Flanders refused to allow Vonerheide his weekend overnight visits with his child

Vonderheide's attorney told Judge Hummer of the psychological evaluations of Flanders which revealed the very real and serious problems. She reminded the Judge that in the middle of all the police charges and elaborate schemes to set up Vonderheide and get him sent to jail and keep him away from his son - is a small child who is being psychologically damaged because of all the acrimony.

It was at this point that Flanders and Yoder kicked into high gear to ensure that Vonderheide had more to worry.

Six weeks later, Flanders filed the third PFA against Vonderheide on September 22, 2004. Five weeks later, Flanders filed a Indirect Criminal Complaint (ICC) against Vonderheide (click here to read the story about that bogus charge).

Amy letter In July, Yoder had already had a plan in motion to get a Calvary Church attendee - Dr. Olaniyi Oluleye to weigh in on the custody fight and provided needed ammunition for the court battle - all without Vonerheide having a clue of what was happening. How did we find out about the hidden sins of Calvary Church? James Kahn of the Philadelphia law firm Margolis Edelstein, representing Dr. Amy Keefer of Philhaven, sent a letter October 18, 2005 which provides the smoking gun that proves that Calvary Church paid for the drugging of an otherwise healthy child and that Calvary church staff used the church's reputation and connection to wrongly effect a doctor's diagnosis!

5thEstate.com - thanks to the Philhaven lawyer was able to access medical records that show the criminal behavior of Yoder and Flanders to conspire to drug this healthy boy - all to help in a custody fight! Philhaven's internal computer program records entries chronologically from the bottom up. If you didn't look at anything else - this one page provides the most damage to Calvary Church's claim of innocence. Starting at the bottom, the first entry is June 28, 2004.
Amy letter Without telling Vonerheide:

  • Kathy Yoder contacted Philhaven regarding the child
  • Despite court order to the contrary, Kathy said the child’s name was Flanders to hide this from Vonerheide. Even if Vonderheide called, Philhaven wouldn't have anyone by the name of Vonderheide
  • Kathy used her association with Calvary Church to give herself and her claims credibility
  • Kathy had bills sent to Calvary even though the child has health insurance. Why? So that Vonderheide would not find out about treatment!
  • Kathy refers to a doctor who is a Calvary attendee
  • Kathy has already "primed the pump" by talking to Doctor previously - no doubt in church!
  • Kathy represents herself as Calvary Church & that she is a counselor
  • Kathy “bad mouths” Vonderhiede
  • Druggin' Doctor

    Dr. OO Dr. Olaniyi Oluleye, who hung the phone up when we called, is from Africa and has attended Calvary for a number of years. First the doctor listened to Kathy Yoder malign Vonderheide. Next he spent an hour and half talking with Flanders and the then 6 year old boy. What did Dr. Oluleye observe for himself?

    "He is fairly well related. Speech was normal in rate and volumne. He kept good eye contact. Mood appeared euthymic. Affect was appropriate, full ranged. He denied suicidal or homicidal ideation. The is no psychotic symptom. … The patient appeared to be of average to above average intelligence. The patient has fair impulse control, insight and judgement."

    (Click to see page one of exam)

    (Click to see page two of exam)





    So what does the doctor conclude after this glowing observation of the "normalcy"? of the child?
    Thanks to Calvary Church employee Kathy Yoder's illegal, secret campaign, notice what the doctor concluded:

    Dr. OO


    All of the information is tailored to give Flanders a position in her custody case with Vonderheide!

    But probably the worst thing the doctor did was to cut out the father, who had the legal right to participate in his son's medical care, and take the word of a woman who apparently will do anything to have her way! Amazingly, this doctor decides - Let's give the boy Psychotropic drugs!

    Dr. OO

    So what happens when you give a normal healthy kid drugs? Wendy Flanders, the mother who claims to love her son and will do anything to keep the child away from her father did not like the results of the drugs:
    Dr. OO


    The child is NOT reacting well to the drugs. What does Philhaven suggest as to how to handle the problem? Double the dosage!

    Look below:

    Dr. OO


    Unless there is any doubt that all of this maneuvering is to help in Flanders custody case, here is an internal Philhaven email sent to Dr. O! Please notice that the Calvary church employee using the church's reputation to influence everyone. Vonerheide's desire for custody is ridiculous but drugging a healthy child is OK!

    Dr. OO


    At this point Vonderheide has NO idea that his son has been seen by any doctor - let alone a psychotropic drug prescribing one!

    Doped Up Kid Taken to Dad
    If you thought it couldn't get worse - hold on to your hat! Remember that Flanders was so concerned about the bad reaction from the drugs that she called the doctor? Flanders dropped off the doped up 6 year old at his father's house without saying a word of the medical problems! Imagine if the reaction was so bad that Vonderheide had to take the boy to the hospital? Wouldn't the treating physician want to know about medication? Flanders was too concerned about her secret being discovered by Vonderheide to let the father know about this important medical issue!

    Vonderheide's petition on August 21, 2004 requested that his child be sent to counseling to deal with the problems related to the custody battle. Flanders fought the petition. All the while, Flanders was already having the boy treated - all without the father's knowledge!

    While Vonderheide had suspicions that something was going on - without proof - he would look foolish for advocating counseling and then fighting against it! Here is part of what Flanders' attorney said - notice that he doesn't mention that the boy was going to Philhaven for past three months!

    the plot

    Yoder and Flanders:

    1) In violation of a court order and the law, manipulate the system so that a healthy child is diagnosed and given drugs. The father is kept completely in the dark!

    2) All of these action are to get a biased, slanted report to be used against Vonderheide in his custody battle

    3) After publicly fighting the counseling for their child, Flanders manipulates Vonderheide into picking Philhaven!

    smokin' gun

    Now, after manipulating Vonderheide into picking a Philhaven doctor, Flanders calls to let them know that the child now has insurance! There's no reason for Calvary to pay the bills since it's no longer a secret to Vonerheide that the child is being treated! The only problem? At this point, Vonderheide has NO clue that the child had been on drugs and that Philhaven had treated him for three months!

    And in what has to be one of the most slickest "bait and switch", Philhaven ASKS Vonderheide permission for Dr. "O" to treat his child in January, even though he treated the child six months prior!

    Philhaven Comes Clean - Calvary Still Dirty
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    But to Philhaven's credit - and unlike Calvary Church - they have come clean regarding their improper drugging of a child. Dr. Francis D. Sparrow, the medical director for Philhaven, acknowledges that Dr. "O"'s examination should NOT have been used in custody, that the information used to determine the diagnosis was not verified AND that the father should have known about the treatment!

    permission

    But fast forward to August 25, 2005 in Judge Wayne Hummer's courtroom. Remember that Hummer has heard Flanders lie, time and time again, in his courtroom. Hummer is also fully aware of Flanders' past manipulation of the system. That's why Hummer's most recent ruling is absolutely unthinkable - Hummer gave all medical decisions to Flanders! Thanks to Hummer, this child, who was drugged to help his mother's custody battle, will no longer have his dad looking out for his interests.

    permission

    To be continued...


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